It starts with being self controlled.
Only then you will see goodness in your life.
Once you see goodness, kindness will abound among those around you.
With enough kindness, people learn to be more patient.
When people are patient, without doubt, there will be peace.
Peace in not just the environment but also within people.
And when that peace come, am sure that love will make its appearance too.
Now, to me, that seems like a progression of fruit of the spirit.