maybe all this while, i am just a tool for you to make him feel jealous..*ouch*strong vs determination vs foolishness,
sometimes it is just too hard to distinguish what all these are exactly..
maybe i really deserve it for not respecting your decision, and the outcome is always so hurting. So this time round i am determined to really just let go and Let God be in control. I am going to be a little extreme.. pls don't blame me if you are reading this, because this roller coaster up and down thingy is seriously driving me crazy..
It's suffocating me like mad.. like the more i turn myself in, the more you would turn away from me. The more that guy turn away from you, the more you would turn in to him. Sounds like playing the mice and cheese game isn't it. I guess that is the cruelity of life. Absence do make one's heart grow fonder in a bad way. The more the guy puts you in an challenging dream(cheese bait) of being with him, the more you would want to pursue it..
.. if one fine day when you finally obtained the cheese, would you be truely feeling happy about it? if yes, I want to ask you where that feeling truely lies.. the realised desire to taste and enjoy the cheese, or just the fulfillment of a surface desire to own the cheese, as it seemed so difficult to get hold of it in the first place..
..For me, I would choose not to be part of a dream for you to chase after, but rather, i would want be part of your journey to conquer a seemingly impossible yet most beautiful dream hand in hand together with you.. I don't want you to enjoy just my presence, but also the many wonderful outcomes that come along with it..
till then..
I will still keep you in my daily prayers as a promise for watching your back..
take care and study hard!
yours faithfully,
teddy bear
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God, pls give me the strength to let go of all this,and seek your will rather than my own. Amen!
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